“Lately, in order to want to sleep with someone, I actually have to them as a person.” He said this as if it were a mind-blowing revelation.
Dating more beautiful women
The other day, at a Fashion Week party, my friend Alan and I stood against a wall, scanning the room for hot people, as you do.
“It’s weird,” he said contemplatively, staring into a sea of models.
The inferiority that we feel, and the competition that we feel in dating, is a delusion. I believe that there is a lid for every pot, and once you understand how attraction works, you’ll never have a problem getting your dream partner interested. For women who struggle in competing with others that they deem more attractive, you have to realize that dating isn’t about how good you look. Dating might seem easier when you’re good-looking, and well put together, but that’s only because the well put together woman spends less time worrying about how other people see her, and more time focused on the guy she wants.
So how do you compete with the better looking people around you? You can get any man to find you attractive if you make him feel good. Never automatically assume that a man will want the most beautiful woman in the room.
I took this group in through my peripherals and noticed the ladies were all wearing sky-high stilettos and ultra-chic outfits.